“Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war; love is a growing up.” – James Baldwin
“Power is the ability to define one’s reality, and make others adapt to that definition as if it were their own”. – Dr. Wade Nobles
I swore to myself that I wouldn’t cave in and write anything remotely related to my least favorite, fabricated and trademarked, “capitalism at its finest” “Holiday (?)”. Completely in denial, I realized, after walking through the mall on New Years Day, while all the window Santas were being replaced with scantily clad cupids, holly and fake snow with metallic hearts and “I <3 …” everywhere, that it very well is “that time of year”… again. Thus is the premise for this post. I still managed to talk about “The L-word” and get my matrix on, though. With the preface out of the way, let’s get to work! Continue reading »